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| Marie and Lewis; Left to right Rose Mary, Irma (my mother), and Minerva about 1928 |
Oh, Bobby! My Bobby!
Those words were never
spoken aloud, by Lewis and Marie Cardiff.
They knew if they did, they would never stop crying. And all the parents in their small town, who
had lost babies and children to diphtheria, would never stop either. The streets would run with tears.
Minerva was a baby when
Bobby died in 1922. Marie hugged her tighter than a tick, afraid to let her go. Lewis took her and rocked her through the
late hours at night.
Another child was born in
1925, Rose Mary. Marie and Lewis had
silently prayed for a boy, but those words also were never spoken aloud.
Life on a farm is about life
and living. Crops were planted in
spring, harvested in early fall. Cows
birthed calves, giving milk for them and the Cardiff family alike. Horses, hogs, gardens: all were life and living. Going on, going forward.
Cars were now on the
streets, “…dirty nasty things,” Marie Cardiff said some seventy years
later. Electric lines were appearing
and some folks had phones. Going on....
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| Lewis and Marie with last child, Vada 1940 |
From his field south of the
town, Lewis heard a sound, one that he prayed he would never hear again. World War…bombs…planes…sounds that still
froze his being.
A plane wobbled from
the south, its wings near to breaking off.
The nose dipped down and landed in Lewis Cardiff’s field.
Marie carried Rose and dragged
Minerva to the field. What is that? A plane?
The entire town poured into
the field and surrounded the plane. They
had never seen one, read about them, but now, here it was. A plane in Lewis Cardiff’s field.
Robertson Aircraft Company lettered the side of the crumpled plane. The nose was in the mud and the tail was up
in the air. One wing was punctured and
the rudder was askew.
Next thing people knew, the
pilot leaped out of the plane with Don Robertson, the owner’s son. “I tol’ you this heap was a piece of shit,
you knew it and I knew it. You
bastard! Coulda killed us both!” He stomped to the road and roared, “Where’s
the goddam train!”
In unison the silent
townspeople pointed to the station a mile away, and the pilot stomped all the
way there, raising his fist at the plane and shouting a variety of obscenities. Some gasped, some roared with laughter, and
the more holy ones smirked inwardly.
Mr. Robertson waited for a
second train heading to St. Louis, Missouri, pulled into the station. The tightly packed crowd moved with him, over
one hundred souls. Like yellow ducklings
with their mama, they followed the poor man, who was wondering what the hell
his pa would say when he heard about this.
A day later another plane
circled the field, where the crumpled wreck sat. The new plane chose to land in the Cardiff
pasture next to the house. A pale and defeated Don
Robertson exited the plane, followed by the new pilot, Charles Lindbergh.
His name whispered through
the re-gathered town. Daredevil Lindbergh? Air mail?
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| early flying years |
The town had foreseen that Don Robertson would drag his tail back to the damaged plane. En mass the ladies brought out boxes of fried chicken, pies, more fried chicken and more pies. Tables were lugged by the men unwillingly straggling after them. The men also set the rusty table up around
the crumpled plane. The tables would later be moved to the replacement plane.
Then Robertson shouted to Lewis Cardiff so that all could hear, “This here plane is simply broke. But,” and he looked at the chicken-eating crowd, “We’re fixing it up. And, there’d better be every last piece o’ metal and the like.”
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| Actually, a family reunion photo, but still fried chicken and pie. |
The silent pie eating group
nodded in agreement. Who would do such a thing? Why, no one we know would do that.
It was determined that
Robertson and Lindbergh would fly the plane from the pasture and head to St.
Louis. A mechanic from the company would
join them, after Robertson had a meaningful talk with his pa.
When the three returned it
was already dusk. Marie hustled the
three men into her house and made up the rooms for the night. She handed Rose Mary to Don Robertson, a
desperate looking Robertson, who seemed glad to hold an infant who would not
say one word to him.
Minerva climbed onto Lindbergh’s
lap and played with his collar.
The next morning while the
mechanic worked on the broken plane, Lindbergh remained in the parlor, quietly
reading magazines.
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By mid-afternoon, the broken
plane had been repaired and they all flew back in the two planes to St.
Louis.
Lewis, Marie, and their children were planting corn in the field, as they looked to the sky. Lindbergh dipped down his wing to them.
Lewis, Marie, and their children were planting corn in the field, as they looked to the sky. Lindbergh dipped down his wing to them.
After Lindbergh had flown across the Atlantic and was in Paris, he sent to the Cardiff family
a postcard with his photograph printed upon it. They both read it many times. Well, then. He made it. Sure was a nice man.
Nearly seventy years later,
Marie said this about Lindbergh:
“He was a quiet man, a gentleman. Yet he talked about his childhood on a farm, and about his father, who was a Senator. His mother was a teacher, he said.”
Marie said this about Lindbergh:
“He was a quiet man, a gentleman. Yet he talked about his childhood on a farm, and about his father, who was a Senator. His mother was a teacher, he said.”
Somewhere in family history, the postcard was stolen. Who would do such a thing? Why, no one we know would do that.
For Lewis and Marie, life and living is about
going on, going forward.

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Wow. Sad. Isn't it funny how losing a child is no different back then, than it is now. The pain and grief is the same.
ReplyDeleteLOVE your post.
I'm amazed at how common it was to lost a child at a young age only a century ago. Technology and and medical understanding have come such a long way.
ReplyDeleteDo you ever long for a simpler time, like back then? Reading this made me wish I could step through time and just be in the crowd.
Mid-West farmer wives make the best pies in the whole world, I swear. My mother used lard, rendered from the last butchered hog. Her pies were exquisite. Sigh.
ReplyDeleteLosing a child is heartbreaking no matter what time you live in!
ReplyDeleteSusan, it has been a while, hope you have been well, I always like reading your posts you have such a familiar style. I will make more of an effort to visit more often. Hope you have a blessed weekend, Amanda
ReplyDeleteFascinating post. It's so sad to lose a child. A good friend of mine went into pre-term labor and they delivered her baby at only 10.5 ounces this week. The baby girl lived a little over 24 hours. Such a horrible thing. :( It made me hold my babies closer, too.
ReplyDeleteLosing a child is never easy.
ReplyDeleteDear Susan, what Robertson lacked in manners and sensibilities he probably made up for with talent. But oh, he surely was a sorehead!
ReplyDeleteOnce again, you've given us a family story that takes us from poignant sorrow to laughter. I hope you know how much I enjoy your writing. It's a craft for you. That's clear.
I was glad to finally get back on my routine and read your other blog yesterday and today I discovered that you'd posted on this blog again. Thank you for coming back here to write another story for us. Peace.
This is so poignant, heartbreaking.
ReplyDeleteYou're posts are so beautiful, poignant and inspiring. Great work.
ReplyDeleteSarah Allen
(From Sarah, With Joy)
This is such wonderful memoir, I wish I had the time and energy to get by here more often.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful post, Susan, but very sad about losing a child. Too sad.
ReplyDeleteDeb@ http://debioneille.blogspot.com
We're all caught in the beautiful memories of the past.
ReplyDeleteThe memoir you wrote is exceptionally beautiful.
I think what really lasts is, being remembered.
I'm sure they're glad you're around.
Losing a child is never easy for parents.
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'been a while since you posted something!
ReplyDeletelooking forward to more from you :)
Take care!
I bet kids today are glad they're not born to a life of hard work (well a lot of them are not). Or maybe they're so used to the easy life that they don't even think of it.
ReplyDeleteWe're pretty spoiled. Medically, Employment-Wise, and Aviationally (that's not a word, I know). ;)
Bittersweet and poignant memories. I could just picture the group around the plane with all the food the church ladies brought. The photos make your writing very special as well.
ReplyDeleteLovely post and photos. here's hoping you come back soon on the blog.
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